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Musings from Vanessa...
(before coffee!!)
Blog-ing with Style...
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This is a pep talk: yep... here it is

"There's always room for a Happy Day..."
So Start using yours!!!!

Some times I wake up with  a clarity ...
A Day that is a blessing, and a gift.
 I've been inspired  with just a couple
"brain blurbs"
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"Use your space "(as in live the day!)
such a carpe diem attitude!

It's as old as the hills, but also so simple.
*Accessorize Liberally! This means scatter yourself around (dont be a bump on your chair!) make the effort to reach out and do something Extraordinary!
*What is failure? as I see it,
it's never something that we have to accept permanently...
..Look at it this way...

You can ALWAYS get something out of the situation......

Its what you take out of it!
you will get... some kind of knowledge..., some contact with another personality..., another view point for whatever...Maybe A Lesson Learned... How about just a way too see, another Way to live!!!  Is that a failure? Absolutely Not!
Isnt it exciting?

Life is that way!...it really is! We all have this opportunity!
So,... in answer to the question :
What would you do with your life if you could not fail.?...
Answer is...:Start  livin it!! Really Jumping in with both feet!
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ok ... for you skeptics...Hear me out,
for those of you that need some one to SCREAM at you from the rooftops!!!....
AAAARRRGGG!!
 of course... There are going to be Trials in your Life ...Think of the person sitting in an asylum , who has lost brain functions, cant walk, cant taste food, cant smell , cant HAVE YOUR LIFE?!
Most of us are not this catatonic state,

it always helps to look at something or someone worse than you ...
but really,How are you Dealing with YOUR Life situation...?

Is every thing a bother...... or an opportunity?
Are you feeling this? or backing away, thinking "I cant get this..."

Let's try this for a scenario, .... another way to try Life...
say,We are starting the day.... Start with  your outlook... What are you going to bring with you for today?
 If you have your suitcase packed with the wrong stuff for "Living" you are not going to be prepared for
Real Life!!..
Hurrying....
fear,
doubt,
anger,
jealously,
worry,
these all take up way too much room time and energy...
 (why would you want to waste any of YOUR LIFE on this crap?) I mean really.. what does any of it accomplish?    

Have you ever said this?:         "I remember the time I was so glad that I was ___ (angry, worried, fill it in) all day                because that really helped the situation! YEAH RIGHT!

This is your Life and YOU  get to choose!!

Try to Remember to pack a lot of:
*Smiles... (it comes in every language, color and size!)

*an Attitude Adjustment kit! Sometimes,It takes a little effort on your part...
   
*Special Outlook Glasses! (just to see things as they really are, in the right perspective)

*a Sparkle or two! hee hee

* Eyes to see where you really ARE in Your Life!

* A compassionate heart to feel for others who have not grasped on to this reality that this is your ONE life, every day is special, and it is happening RIGHT NOW!

really, take this with you, hold it close to your soul , and USE your space in this life here on earth!!!!Your Life is Special!

There is always room for a Happy Day!!!
SO...START  USING YOURS!!!

Smiles~Vanessa