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how many of you bloggers watched oprah today?  her show was about spousal rape.  let me tell all of you bloggers that this show is an eye-opener.  this is a very serious show that all of you female bloggers should have been watching. 

the first lady that oprah had on the show told her about her ordeal when she ws married.  she was raped and sodemized by her own husband.  he is up for parole as of 2019.  if you ever saw the show today, and saw the pictures of what happened to her.  you'ld be shocked and mortified.  thank god she did report her husband to the police.  while the husband was still sleeping, she escaped through a window.  her ex-husband was verbally abusive toward her as well.  she was explaining what happened was very shocking.  this guy would punch her, make her perform sexual acts that she did not want to do, and rape her.  he even said horrible things like how does it feel to be used and other things.  the lady in the first story said to oprah that she was laying on the bed and her ex would force himself on top of her.  he would put the sofa in front of the front door and the dryer at the back door, and he told her that no one is going to save her.  before that she was dragged outside and screaming for help.  he said to her that he would have the opportunity to kill her outside or in the house.

the second lady,who was a deuputy police officer, that oprah had on the show today, told her what happened to her.  she told oprah that she was raped by her ex-husband as well.  she was having arguments with him over a single subject-sex.  her husband was good at manipulating her.  he would ask her to have sex with him and she said no.  one night her ex tried to kill himself, by holding a knife to his neck crying and saying that he would kill himself because she would not have sex with him.  she got him to calm down and both of them went into the bedroom.  on the program, she told oprah that wa when he forced her to have sex with him.  he would tell her that she doesn't love him because she would not have the sexual contact with him.  one night she came home from work, her ex was hiding under the steps of her home.  down the road from her home, the ex forced her into his car and drove her to a small town in colorado and raped her.  this guy was even carring a gun.  she was even carring a restraining order paper in hand.  in court, one of her kids at the sentencing hearing said that what happened to her mom was horrible and if she would ever see him, she would fear for her own life.  this lady was doing the right thing by changing the locks on her house.  the ex husband was sentenced to prison for life.  she did not report it the first time because she was in denial.

the prosecutor that was on toward the end of the show told oprah that there are some tings that victims of spousal rape should do and they are the following:

(***)keep a journal

(***)go to the hopsital and have a rape kit collect evidence

(***)go to the police

(***)get a restraining order

(***)tell someone