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by Only1Antoine from Milwaukee, Wisconsin

Last Post 6 hours Ago


My friend (colleague from work, a female if you want to know) and I were just talking about this on FaceBook and I really am someone who can't fall in love with a female.

I can actually love a girl being in a relationship, but like deeply fall in love is something that I have never ever done or any female that I have ever been with has done either.

I'm quite sure maybe they have fallen in love in their previous relationships with past guys they've been with, but that is something I can never feel.

So tell me, how can you fall in love with someone besides telling her how you feel without having it being forced out of you when a woman asks a man and vice versa?

(I just need "TIPS" or "FACTS". NO SOBBY STORIES. Save it for another day when I make another blog for this same subject.)

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echoplex read my blog
Jun 29, 2008 | 12:27 PM

To TRULY love someone else "deeply" one must love themself deeply: that is to accept yourself with unconditional love and forgiveness.
The reason so many find it hard to love someone else deeply is because a relationship forces you to look at yourself as if in the mirror: and often times what we see ain't that pretty.
If this is the case then change is required, and change takes work. Most of us are not willing to make that change: for ourselves OR someone else.
This is why I will probably never be in a committed relationship with a woman; I am the first to admit I am a self-deprecating bum who has no desire to work to my potential.
As a result I lose out on one of life's greatest gifts to man: a woman.

DKdad read my blog
Jul 1, 2008 | 9:58 AM

You are still a young man Antoine. Don't get down on yourself for the way you feel now. Maturity takes time. Most important tip - be honest with yourself and any woman you see as a friend. If anything developes with a woman, it is vital to a long lasting relationship that you AND she are honest with each other about everything. If you find that person, you will find youself wanting to be with her all the time.
(please update your Bio with your new job - thanks)

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