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by JuneInMA from Boston, MA

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First off, I've been following the story of this family for a while now and while I would NEVER even think of doing something like this, I am very impressed with the way they function.  It's quite admirable.  Kind of puts that theory from that Harvard professor under the microscope after all, if what he says is true, this two should be living in separate house by now.  Check it out!!!!  :)

Fuller house: Arkansas mom pregnant with 18th child - Michelle Duggar gives her kids a Mother’s Day surprise: ‘We’re expecting!’

The Duggar kids planned a big Mother's Day surprise for their mom this year. But the surprise was on them when Michelle Duggar announced on the TODAY Show that they were soon to welcome an 18th sibling.

“We’re expecting!” the happy mother told TODAY co-host Meredith Vieira and the entire Arkansas clan. “Number 18!

“They didn’t know. My girls watch the calendar like a hawk. We just found out on Monday night.”

“On Monday night she brought one of the [pregnancy] testers in,” Michelle's husband Jim Bob added. “I wanted to bring it with me, but she wouldn’t let me.”

And baby, due around New Year’s Day, would make 20.

Joshua, the Duggars’ eldest son, said the news, two days before Mother's Day was “a shock” — if only to a point.

“I wasn’t expecting that,” the 20-year-old said. “But it’s been nine months [since the birth of the last baby], so yeah.”

Family forest
To date, the Duggars’ 17 natural children range in age from 20 years to 9 months. Included in the mix are 10 boys and seven girls — Joshua, twins Jana and John-David, Jill, Jessa, Jinger, Joseph, Josiah, Joy-Anna, twins Jedidiah and Jeremiah, Jason, James, Justin, Jackson, Johannah and baby Jennifer, who arrived last Aug. 2.

With two sets of twins, Michelle, 41, has gone through 15 pregnancies that ended in 13 natural deliveries and two Caesarean sections.

Both Michelle and Jim Bob — a former state legislator who served in the Arkansas House of Representatives — are real estate agents. They claim their family is debt-free, with the entire bunch helping to build their 7,000-square-foot home in Tontitown. And they are enriched by a devout faith in their religion.

The Duggars are followers of the evangelical Christian movement called Quiverful, which teaches that children are God’s blessing and that husbands and wives should happily welcome every child they are given. In fact, the Duggars' Web site, duggarfamily.com, quotes “Children are a heritage of the Lord” from verse 3 of the 123rd Psalm.

“We just let the Lord decide,” Jim Bob, 42, told Vieira.

“They are such a gift and we’re enjoying them so much,” Michelle added. “We would love more, and the power of the Lord took our faith to give us another one.”

The Duggars married in 1984, when Michelle was 17 and Jim Bob was 19. They held off on having kids for four years before Michelle ceased taking birth control pills to have their first child. After Joshua was born in 1988, Michelle returned to birth control but wound up getting pregnant anyway. Unfortunately, she suffered a miscarriage, which the couple attributed to use of the pill.

Michelle and Jim Bob decided to pray for as many children as God would give them. Within a year, Michelle was pregnant with the first of their two sets of twins.

Their large number of offspring has meant other large numbers for the Duggars. Michelle has been pregnant for 135 months of her life, with an average of 18 months between births. The family estimates it has used 90,000 diapers and launders 200 loads of clothes each month in a row of industrial-size washers and dryers.

Even though they go through three loaves of bread per day, they claim to feed their family for less than $2,000 a month. Transportation is facilitated by nine vehicles, led by a 21-passenger bus. They estimate that all members of the family have combined to work approximately 39,000 hours on their home.

Each child learns to play both violin and piano. And for what it’s worth, when child No. 18 arrives, they’ll have enough kids to field two baseball teams.

Most importantly, there is a unique dedication to serve the greater good of the home and family. An older child will take on the responsibility of a younger sibling throughout the day. The children help prepare meals and keep to a steady home-schooling schedule. Group studies include materials from Advanced Training Institute International, a Bible-based education program for families.

The Duggars' daily adventures are currently being chronicled in a television series on the Discovery Health channel. They previously participated in another Discovery Health series, “On the Road with 16 Kids."

A happy Mother’s Day
To celebrate the latest addition to the Duggar clan, the TODAY Show planned their own surprise for Michelle by sending her children out to either shop or make new gifts for their busy mother.

The main gifts, picked by all the kids, included a ring Michelle saw and liked in a used jewelry store two weeks ago, as well as a pearl necklace and matching earrings. The older girls, Jana, Jill, Jessa and Jinger, picked out an outfit for their mom designed for “in-between” stages of pregnancy.

And, for a fitting gift that keeps on giving, all of the kids went in on a coffeemaker. “She always has to make so much, so we got a big one for her,” Jessa said.

The final present was a large, cardboard card with each of the children’s handprints posted in paint, along with a loving message.

“They thought they’d give their a mom surprise,” Jim Bob said. “But she gave them a surprise.”

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paulnofsky read my blog
May 10, 2008 | 7:14 AM

sounds like your typical trailertrash redneck family.The only thing missing was that she didnt marry her cousin

Xantun read my blog view my photos
May 10, 2008 | 4:43 PM

June, according to that professor, these parents should be living on different PLANETS by now!

I don't think I'll ever have ONE kid, let alone as many as they do, but my hat's off to them for having the energy (probably all that coffee!) to handle that many kids!

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
May 10, 2008 | 7:13 PM

paulnofsky, if you saw them, you would notice they are far from being 'trash' of any kind. It's actually quite amazing.

Xantun, you're right! They should be in different planets! LOL. However, honestly, while it's not easy for them having so many kids, the precision with which they run their home is very impressive. I certainly wouldn't be able to do it, but man, they do a great job!

Xantun read my blog view my photos
May 11, 2008 | 5:53 PM

Yeah, June, I saw a special on Discovery Health about them...Most parents would probably kill to discover their secret for getting everything to work so well, including parents with one or two kids. If they ever need a little more financial stability, I'm sure they could teach classes and be rich.

(I deliberately ignored the first comment. Some things just aren't worth wasting the time to acknowledge.)

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
May 11, 2008 | 10:23 PM

Xantun,

They also have a future as a family-owned construction company. They did an amazing job building that house. It's gorgeous!

jonsmom read my blog view my photos
May 12, 2008 | 2:18 PM

I'd like to be trailer trash if it means living in a 7000 sq foot house. And there is no such thing as human trash.

Chip read my blog view my photos
May 13, 2008 | 11:50 AM

I let this go this morning, and am still seething this noon...time for the chipster to spout off:


paulnofsky, yu should be ashamed of yourself. To characterize folks who simple see thing differently or believe in different things so disrespectfully is simply unacceptable.

These folks are far from trailer trash. they are God fearing parents who care both about their children and the world they leave to them. Your intolerance disgusts me.

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
May 13, 2008 | 9:32 PM

Chip,

It's never wise for you to hold yourself back from 'spouting off'. :)

Xantun read my blog view my photos
May 13, 2008 | 9:46 PM

Yeah, June, these people could be rolling in dough, if they wanted to be. And Al Gore could probably ask them for tips to cut down on his energy bills!

Chip read my blog view my photos
May 14, 2008 | 4:30 AM

June,

It is always wise for me to think first and speak second!! Trust me.

It's like the carpenters addage: Measure thrice, cut once.

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"The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary" - Author Unknown. I'm 27 (28 in July 2008). Happily married to Elijah (aka "My Bunny") and have 3 funny and loving cats (Garfield, Peekaboo & new addition, Pocket). I have a great job, although it's not my 'dream' job as a Loan Analyst, but one has to be grateful to have ANY job nowadays. I have a family that I'd die for and a great core of friends that are priceless. I may not have the life people would die for, but there isn't a single thing in it I would trade. Not one. I love to read, nap and hang out in my mother's kitchen. I believe in being decent, kind and helpful whenever possible and do as much as I can to contribute to the welfare of animals. I love animals. "If He leads you to it, He will bring you through it" - Author Unknown.

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